..being a Cancerian!

by | Nov 15, 2009 | 19 comments

I don’t really believe in all this but…

One of the basic characteristics of a Cancerian is that he is very prone to mood swings, which are matched by changing emotions. At one point of time, you may have seen him in a typical party mood, enjoying himself and laughing at other people’s jokes. He may come across as the most extroverted member in the entire group. However, another time, he may be completely introverted, sitting in a corner and lost in his own world. This single personality trait can help you in identifying a Cancer very easily.craby A Cancerian will never run behind fame and publicity, but if he ever gets it, he definitely knows how to bask in the limelight. In a melancholic mood, he can become the coldest person on this earth and drown you in his bottomless depression. Cancerians are prone to pessimism and usually hide their fears behind a veil of humor. They love to dream and for them, sky’s the limit. When he cries, it is because he is deeply hurt from inside. A harsh glance or a rough tone can easily break Cancer’s vulnerable heart.

When he is hurt, he will either cry his heart out or retreat into a silent spell. However, it is rare that he takes revenge from the one who has hurt him. If a Cancer retreats to his shell, you can be sure he will become completely unreachable. He won’t pick his phone, answer the doorbell or even check his mail. Another mood that can engulf a Cancer is a snappy one, or you can say a crabby one. He will hate the world and snap at anything and everything. However, you can be sure he is not angry with you and will soon be his normal self again.

While in a conversation, the facial features of a crab will change a number of times, displaying his numerous moods. He has a vivid imagination and at times will drown you in his moods too. Each and every experience affects him and gets engraved in his memory. Cancerians remember everything life has taught them and are true patriots. Past intrigues them and they love to collect antiques, old treasures and ancient relics. They are the perfect keepers of secrets and people automatically confide in them.

However, their own thoughts and secrets are strictly off limits for everyone. A typical cancer will never discuss his personal life with anyone. Compassion and intuition gel perfectly with the Cancer profile. He seldom judges people, just soaks up what comes his way and reflects the same. He will never ever give up an object he cherishes, be it a gift from a lover or the worn jeans he loves wearing. Cancerians have a soft heart; they care about people and are quite helpful. However, they wait to see if someone else is helping.

If the answer is yes, they will sit back and let the other person be the savior. In case no one comes forward; they will be there to rescue you. A Cancer person may come at the last minute, but he will save you just before you are about to drown. He is not selfish, it just that he never wants to be impulsive. But, he will save you nonetheless. Before he makes any move, a Cancerian must be sure of strong backing. Without it, he hates to venture on his own. He does not forget mistakes easily, especially his own.

He will brood over them and take a long time before moving ahead again. Cancerian loves, rather reveres, his home and his loved ones. Too much is not even enough for him. He needs more, more security, more love and more care. Insecurity may lead him to depression and weaken him physically. However, Cancerians have this amazing quality of self-healing. All they require is happiness, optimism and laughter in large doses. They are prone to negative thoughts and are always preparing for the unseen future.

The maxim ‘Old is Gold’ fits perfectly to a Cancer, whether it is the case of people or things. He is also very good at making as well as managing wealth. He has a large heart and will share willingly if his loved ones are in need. However, wastage, especially of food, is sure to tick him off. All the sensitivity of a crab is hidden beneath his hard shell and it will take much care and love to bring him out of his shell and close to you!!

wb2

..somehow this explains ‘ME’ perfectly!

Sorry folks! I’ll be visiting you all as soon as I can.. I missed you all!

My Sunday Still Contributions….

fishyFins..featherFeathers.. lionand..Furrrr!

 

 

 

19 Comments

  1. colleen

    I am a fellow cancerian and it fits me to a “T” as well…Hope you come back soon.

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  2. HenryGL

    🙂 well said !! and the picture perfect Camouflage. The fin.feather.fur………. wow! u r like a phenoex bird rising up from the dust to the highest…….great shots mate

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  3. Sandy

    Your fins, feathers and fur are fabulous!!

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  4. Trapper Creek Daughter

    Wow, I almost didn’t see the crab in the picture…excellent camouflage. I love peacock feathers, they’re so pretty!

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  5. thecrazysheeplady

    Fabulous, as always. Good to see your fins, feathers and fur! 🙂

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  6. Laughing Orca Ranch

    Excellent photos as always! Good to see ya around again. I missed ya.
    Oh, and I’m a Virgo…..

    ~Lisa

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  7. Janice

    Verrrry nice!

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  8. Derick Loveswing

    Patriotism, loyalty, family, and honor are Cancer themes, but so also, compassion, eloquently expressed by Cancerian Cruise. Derick Loveswing

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  9. VioletSky

    Good to see you back.
    And with such gorgeous photos, again.
    So sorry you have been going through such difficulties. It’s hard to remember happy when one is so down.

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  10. Beyond Bluestockings

    Friend, take as long as you need in your corner ..we’ll still be here when you’re ready for a party 😉

    Great photos (of course!) and cleverly presented to place your popping blue between the two tans.. beautiful contrast!

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  11. chloe

    welcome back my dearest blog friend, i’m so so happy to see you posted!

    you did an amazing come back post! x

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  12. dibear

    Kevin it is so good to see you back with us again. You have truely been missed. Your shots are spectacular as always.

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  13. Ed

    Very cool pics, and welcome back Bro..:-))))))

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  14. CTG Ponies

    Great pics! Love the puffer fish.

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  15. Holly

    wowwowwow! Very cool indeed!

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  16. flowerweaver

    Missed you! That’s really a cute fish! It even has a facial expression. Nice shots. Hope you are enjoying your new job and will find time to answer your emails 🙂

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  17. Steffie

    Love your story about the cancarian, though I think a lot of people that are not cancarians recognize themselves in this description too. I know I do. The moodchanges in particular sound very familiar.
    Love the pufferfish. I have a dwarf puffer in my fishtank. Funny and mean they are. Love them 😉

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  18. kcjewel

    welcome back! the crab shot is fabulous and the puffer… well, that’s what i call a fish out of water. : )

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  19. Carrie

    I married a Cancerian and I must admit, this sounds very much like my husband. I love his nesting instincts though. As a greedy Capricorn, I tend to do away with the little things that make a house a home. Were it not for my husband, we wouldn’t be nearly so comfortable. I love my crabby guy! 🙂 This was nice of you to share, Nivin. I’m totally digging those peacock feathers, too. Woo-hoo! Best wishes for 2010!

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